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Breast Feeding

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The start of breastfeeding

Just as birthing has been portrayed in our culture as difficult and painful, so too has breastfeeding. The fact is that the vast majority of mothers and babies breastfeed with few difficulties.  But equally this isn't always the case and some support can be helpful also a little preperation of what to maybe expect can help alliviate some stresses of those first few days and weeks. Mother’s bodies and babies know what to do, but there are some things that make this process harder or interfered with.  As with birthing, positive expectations, good support from family, friends and care providers, and trust in the process are necessary. 

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When your baby begins to nurse, it triggers a release of oxytocin. This causes the tiny muscles around the milk glands to contract, releasing the milk into the ducts, where it flows to the nipple. Most mothers feel a tingly sensation in the nipples when the milk ejection reflex or

let-down occurs, and milk begins to flow from both nipples. Without the let-down, your baby will get very little milk. Just as in labour, oxytocin flows best when a mother is relaxed. Relaxation techniques are very helpful during the months and years of breastfeeding.

 

Colostrum is present for the first few days after birth, it is low in fat, high in protein, and contains many essential antibodies and important growth factors. It has a mild laxative effect which helps empty the bowel of meconium and helps clear bilirubin to prevent jaundice. The volume of colostrum is small, but it is just the right amount for a newborn.

 

Breast milk comes through within 24 to 72 hours after birth, the milk glands transition from producing colostrum to milk. The volume increases dramatically and composition changes to meet your baby’s needs Breastfeeding is a model of supply and demand. The more your baby nurses, the more milk you will make. Mothers of twins and triplets can and do breastfeed their babies and many mothers nurse two or more babies of different ages (tandem nursing) or donate milk.

 

Breastfeeding should feel good. If it hurts, take your baby off the nipple and let them try again. She should have the entire nipple in her mouth, and perhaps some of the areola (depending upon the size of mother’s nipples.) If she sucks on just the tip, she will get little milk and you will have sore nipples.

 

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When and How to feed?

 

Begin feeding at first signs of hunger , you will learn to see the signs but being close and connected to your baby will make this process more seamless (loudly sucking on fingers), not when your baby is screaming, crying means either something else or we missed the first signs. If your baby is not waking often enough to nurse, you may have to wake to encourage feeding properly at first 8 times in 24 hours. For breast feeding to work well it's best not to  use bottles or dummies in the first few weeks.Using artificial nipples may lead to nipple confusion but i am totally not against this it is definitely sometimes necessary.If supplementing is medically necessary, there are feeding methods that will decrease the chance of nipple confusion. I can go over these with you if we need to at the time.​ Nurse on both breasts at each feeding in the early weeks. You'll naturally want to for comfort and ease. Nurse on the first side until the baby’s swallowing slacks off, then switch to the other side.Let the baby nurse until full on the second side. Milk at the end of the feeding (hindmilk) has a higher fat content than the first or foremilk - don't get too attached to this we can look at making sure they're feeding until the end if its necessary.  But it's just a call out to let them finish their feed. ​If you feel that you and your baby need some help, there are lots of things that can be done to help so reach out.  â€‹

 

How often should babies nurse?

 

Babies nurse every 1.5 to 2 hours around the clock the first few weeks, and may have one longer sleep period of about 4 hours. There should be about 8-10 feeds per day. As your baby grows, they takes more at each feeding and begins to go longer between feedings.How will you know if your baby is getting enough milk?A well-nourished baby will have at least 5 or 6 very wet nappies and 4 or 5 bowel movements per day.To learn what a “very wet” nappy feels like, pour 45ml of water on a clean nappy.Bowel Movements should cover at least 5cm of the nappy.The first stools, meconium, will be sticky and black.Stools become greenish “transitional stools” in the next day or two,Typical stools of a breastfed infant after the immediate newborn period are soft (almost liquid) yellow and seedy.​​​​

 

Guide  - how do I know my baby is getting enough.​​​​​​​​

Breastfeeding Nutrition

This will go hand in hand with my guides for postpartum but there are a few things said to help milk flow. But honestly the best is rest and kindness to self​, pause reset., stay warm and be nutured. Don't underestimate how much energy your body is using to produce milk and fee your baby, stay hydrated herbal teas and water and eat as your hungry. ​

Teas/Drinks/Elixirs

Theres so much nourishment you can receive here warm drinks are magic, mostly choose thing you like that lean int  oxytocin and yumminess. 

  • Moringa Tea

  • Nettle Tea

  • Fennel Tea or adding to food

  • Blessed thistle - Tea or supplement

  • Fenugreek - Tea or add to food

  • Cacao (add little cinnamon or ginger or cardamom.)

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Nutrition​

  • Nutrient-Dense Foods - Focus on warm, easily digestible meals such as bone broths, stews, soups, and healthy fats. Hydration is key—herbal teas, coconut water, and mineral-rich drinks help replenish fluids.

  • Postpartum nutrition should focus on warm, healing foods that are easy to digest. Some nourishing ideas:

  • • Bone Broth-Based Soups – Rich in minerals and collagen for tissue repair.

  • • Oatmeal with Nuts & Dates – Supports milk production and provides sustained energy.

  • • Golden Milk or Herbal Teas – Anti-inflammatory and soothing.

  • • Slow-Cooked Meats & Stews – Strengthens the body and replenishes iron stores.

  • • Healthy Snacks – Energy balls, nut butters, or avocado toast for quick nourishment.

 

​Postpartum Recipes - some meal plans that could be very helpful and supportive for you, baby, breast milk.

Breast Feeding 
Support

​​General Support

 

Consider joining a breastfeeding support group in your community. You will meet like-minded families and receive the support essential to breastfeeding success. 

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IBCLC (Int'l Board of Certified Lactation Consultants) closest to you which can be voluntary, NHS or private.

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National Breastfeeding Helpline 

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The Breastfeeding Network

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National Childbirth Trust (NCT) 

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La Leche League 

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Hackney Support

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Lactation recommendations

Thomasina Lowe

Aiyana Holistic

Boo Charkin

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Tongue tie Consultants East London

alisonshaloe@aol.com

babytonguetie@outlook.com

contact@tonguetieaway.co.uk

Some items that can support breastfeeding

 

  • Comfortable Clothes – Loose, soft clothing and nursing-friendly options.

  • Nipple Care: Calendula ointment or nipple balm for healing.

  • Nipple Shields & Pump: If breastfeeding, these can help in case of latch issues or engorgement - Medela or Elvie

  • Resistance Bottle - only if needed

  • Steraliser only if needed/wanted

  • Blankets: For cozying up with your baby during skin-to-skin time, adding a bit of extra love & luxury.

Tips

Baby not latching well - start with rest for all, get in bed, warmth comfort pillows, teas, nourishment  allow them to go on and off on and off and let them and you figure it out without pressure, Let yourself be looked after fed, waited upon. 

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Pain for Mama - Need to find a better latch, reset, baby needs big open mouth to latch correctly.

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Nipple pain - Calendula, nipple shields, nipple gause - you can work through this but lots of rest. 

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Tiredness - Get some rest, lay with or without baby give yourself a fuller reset let partner take over for a few hours of true rest.

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Baby not gaining weight - lots of ways to help, but alot of the time its okay we're not all the same and neither are babies they all gain weight differently. Don't panic. You can supplement but if you want to continue breastfeedling do this via a tube, to help stimulate the breast at the same time. 

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