
Breast Feeding

The start of breastfeeding
Just as birthing has been portrayed in our culture as difficult and painful, so too has breastfeeding. The fact is that the vast majority of mothers and babies breastfeed with few difficulties. But equally this isn't always the case and some support can be helpful also a little preperation of what to maybe expect can help alliviate some stresses of those first few days and weeks. Mother’s bodies and babies know what to do, but there are some things that make this process harder or interfered with. As with birthing, positive expectations, good support from family, friends and care providers, and trust in the process are necessary.
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When your baby begins to nurse, it triggers a release of oxytocin. This causes the tiny muscles around the milk glands to contract, releasing the milk into the ducts, where it flows to the nipple. Most mothers feel a tingly sensation in the nipples when the milk ejection reflex or
let-down occurs, and milk begins to flow from both nipples. Without the let-down, your baby will get very little milk. Just as in labour, oxytocin flows best when a mother is relaxed. Relaxation techniques are very helpful during the months and years of breastfeeding.
Colostrum is present for the first few days after birth, it is low in fat, high in protein, and contains many essential antibodies and important growth factors. It has a mild laxative effect which helps empty the bowel of meconium and helps clear bilirubin to prevent jaundice. The volume of colostrum is small, but it is just the right amount for a newborn.
Breast milk comes through within 24 to 72 hours after birth, the milk glands transition from producing colostrum to milk. The volume increases dramatically and composition changes to meet your baby’s needs Breastfeeding is a model of supply and demand. The more your baby nurses, the more milk you will make. Mothers of twins and triplets can and do breastfeed their babies and many mothers nurse two or more babies of different ages (tandem nursing) or donate milk.
Breastfeeding should feel good. If it hurts, take your baby off the nipple and let them try again. She should have the entire nipple in her mouth, and perhaps some of the areola (depending upon the size of mother’s nipples.) If she sucks on just the tip, she will get little milk and you will have sore nipples.
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Breastfeeding Nutrition
This will go hand in hand with my guides for postpartum but there are a few things said to help milk flow. But honestly the best is rest and kindness to self​, pause reset., stay warm and be nutured. Don't underestimate how much energy your body is using to produce milk and fee your baby, stay hydrated herbal teas and water and eat as your hungry. ​
Teas/Drinks/Elixirs
Theres so much nourishment you can receive here warm drinks are magic, mostly choose thing you like that lean int oxytocin and yumminess.
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Moringa Tea
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Nettle Tea
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Fennel Tea or adding to food
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Blessed thistle - Tea or supplement
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Fenugreek - Tea or add to food
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Cacao (add little cinnamon or ginger or cardamom.)
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Nutrition​
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Nutrient-Dense Foods - Focus on warm, easily digestible meals such as bone broths, stews, soups, and healthy fats. Hydration is key—herbal teas, coconut water, and mineral-rich drinks help replenish fluids.
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Postpartum nutrition should focus on warm, healing foods that are easy to digest. Some nourishing ideas:
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• Bone Broth-Based Soups – Rich in minerals and collagen for tissue repair.
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• Oatmeal with Nuts & Dates – Supports milk production and provides sustained energy.
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• Golden Milk or Herbal Teas – Anti-inflammatory and soothing.
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• Slow-Cooked Meats & Stews – Strengthens the body and replenishes iron stores.
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• Healthy Snacks – Energy balls, nut butters, or avocado toast for quick nourishment.
​Postpartum Recipes - some meal plans that could be very helpful and supportive for you, baby, breast milk.
Breast Feeding
Support
​​General Support
Consider joining a breastfeeding support group in your community. You will meet like-minded families and receive the support essential to breastfeeding success.
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IBCLC (Int'l Board of Certified Lactation Consultants) closest to you which can be voluntary, NHS or private.
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National Breastfeeding Helpline
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National Childbirth Trust (NCT)
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Hackney Support
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Lactation recommendations
Boo Charkin
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Tongue tie Consultants East London

Some items that can support breastfeeding
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Comfortable Clothes – Loose, soft clothing and nursing-friendly options.
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Nipple Care: Calendula ointment or nipple balm for healing.
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Nipple Shields & Pump: If breastfeeding, these can help in case of latch issues or engorgement - Medela or Elvie
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Resistance Bottle - only if needed
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Steraliser only if needed/wanted
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Blankets: For cozying up with your baby during skin-to-skin time, adding a bit of extra love & luxury.

Tips
Baby not latching well - start with rest for all, get in bed, warmth comfort pillows, teas, nourishment allow them to go on and off on and off and let them and you figure it out without pressure, Let yourself be looked after fed, waited upon.
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Pain for Mama - Need to find a better latch, reset, baby needs big open mouth to latch correctly.
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Nipple pain - Calendula, nipple shields, nipple gause - you can work through this but lots of rest.
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Tiredness - Get some rest, lay with or without baby give yourself a fuller reset let partner take over for a few hours of true rest.
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Baby not gaining weight - lots of ways to help, but alot of the time its okay we're not all the same and neither are babies they all gain weight differently. Don't panic. You can supplement but if you want to continue breastfeedling do this via a tube, to help stimulate the breast at the same time.
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